It's been almost three years since I move to Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. The official month is August but I thought I'd talk a bit about this before we actually hit the date. It's not so much about those three years, it's more about the guy I spent them with.
Yep, here is an ode to my hubby, partner in crime, my lovely husband.
I've noticed it lately: we are better together. Like really good.
That shouldn't be a surprise, I mean, we got married after all. But lets be honest, the first year or so living together wasn't a walk in the park. Probably because we had to get used to each other and find those little weird things people do on an every day basis that you won't know until you live with them.
There are some things that do annoy me, him talking to himself for example. It confuses the heck out of me cause I never know if he talks to me. I am sure he's not too thrilled about me inquiring about things all the time. Yes, I am a curious person. Ask my mother!
He snores when the room temperature is too cold, which wakes me and I hate to push him to make him stop. It disturbs his sleep and it's bad enough if one of us doesn't sleep so well. On the other hand, I'd like to have some me-sleep-time. I can spread across the bed and don't need to worry about bumping into him.
Yeah, this are the funny little things you don't know about until you are there.
So, how are we better together? I am not really sure to be honest, it's nothing I can pinpoint and say "This is it!" It's rather the everyday life that feels good. I am centered sort of and I know I can count on him no matter was comes our way. We have those funny moments when we think the same without even try or talking about it previously. For example, we get home, separately, and both say we want to see a movie.
I know that we teas each other quite a bit too and that it can be entertaining, especially for our family. But I also see that as a better together sign to be honest with you. Just like the roles we have in our house hold and who is doing what. Here I have to admit that my beloved husband is doing probably, no, very likely, more than I do and I love him for it.
3 years of living together will roll around this August, 4 years of marriage as well and 10 years of being together (at least mentally). It's quite something.
So, how are we better together? I am not really sure to be honest, it's nothing I can pinpoint and say "This is it!" It's rather the everyday life that feels good. I am centered sort of and I know I can count on him no matter was comes our way. We have those funny moments when we think the same without even try or talking about it previously. For example, we get home, separately, and both say we want to see a movie.
I know that we teas each other quite a bit too and that it can be entertaining, especially for our family. But I also see that as a better together sign to be honest with you. Just like the roles we have in our house hold and who is doing what. Here I have to admit that my beloved husband is doing probably, no, very likely, more than I do and I love him for it.
3 years of living together will roll around this August, 4 years of marriage as well and 10 years of being together (at least mentally). It's quite something.
3 comments:
I LOVE this, Andrea!! We love you and Andrew and are so thrilled for you.
We are 6-1/2 years into our "2nd" 50 years together, and all I can say is that it GETS BETTER every year!! I'm not perfect, and neither is my sweet husband, but we ARE two peas in a pod! We connect!
Queenie
This made me smile and utter the word "süüüüüüüß" several times :) I guess, I'm not telling you any news when I'm saying that both Paul and me love you two... like loads :D
And I know the "better together"-part as well, meaning your husband/boyfriend is your best friend, somebody you can always count on, and I love these moments when you just have to look at each other for one moment and know exactly what the other one is thinking ;)
xx
Caro
; ) awesome!
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